Stand Up
“No one with curly hair is allowed into our clubhouse,” said Kimmy as she pushed Judy on the shoulder so hard she fell down into the dirt. “What if I made my hair straight? Could I come in then?” pleaded … Continued
This Is Me. That Is You.
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The secret to a loving and peaceful existence is good fences, healthy boundaries that say, “This is me. That is you. And we both matter.” Every person is unique and has his or her own set of experiences that have … Continued
First, Do No Harm
We never really know what another person is thinking or feeling, and therefore cannot always know the right thing to say or do when things become difficult or heated. Our natural instinct is to protect ourselves via the fight or … Continued
Where We Look, We Go
John and Lucy came to see me and chose to sit across the room from one another instead of sharing the couch. It was clear they needed some space from one another. Their distress was easy to see, as they … Continued
Setting Relationship Boundaries For A Successful Summer Holiday Weekend
The summer holidays are upon us, and for many, the July 4th weekend is marked by festivities with family and friends. Some look forward to the shared moments, while others may approach their gatherings with apprehension. Whether your relationships are … Continued
7 Simple Ways to Show Appreciation to Loved Ones
Take a moment to look at the relationships in your life. Whether they are right here in the same neighborhood or across the world, we are all blessed with people we appreciate. When was the last time you expressed your … Continued
Remembering to Respect the Fences of Others
As we talk about tending our relationship fences, we are discussing more than building boundaries for others to consider when involving themselves in our lives. Just as importantly, we must remember to respect the fences of those who allow us … Continued