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Great Tips for Managing Difficult Dynamics at Holiday Gatherings
18 Dec 2015

Great Tips for Managing Difficult Dynamics at Holiday Gatherings

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

Lately, I have talked with several people who are worrying out loud about their holiday gatherings, dreading the difficult dynamics and wishing it was already over. The holidays, for all of their hopeful preparation and sparkle, can come apart at … Continued

What Can We Do Today to Make the World Better
11 Dec 2015

What Can We Do Today to Make the World Better

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

Throughout the history of humankind there has always been light and dark, good and bad, growth and destruction within in us. It is the full spectrum of which we are capable as the amazing creations we are. We have the … Continued

Recovering Peace and Calm After Tragedy
4 Dec 2015

Recovering Peace and Calm After Tragedy

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

When life seems scary or unsettling, like it does after this recent horrible event, remember these 3 keys to find your way back to peace and calm. First, remember the remedy to fear is love. Find someone, starting with yourself … Continued

5 Tips for a Healthy, Happy Holiday Season
3 Dec 2015

5 Tips for a Healthy, Happy Holiday Season

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

This time of year it is especially important to take excellent care of ourselves. The flurry of the holidays mixed with end of year work commitments can tax our physical and emotional wellbeing when we aren’t paying attention to ourselves. … Continued

Key Conversation Don’ts for Holiday Gatherings
24 Nov 2015

Key Conversation Don’ts for Holiday Gatherings

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

Holiday gatherings and party conversations require some finessing and forethought to bring out the best in all involved. Lackluster or even dreadful stories of family holidays past serve as a perfect reminder of what not to do and how to … Continued

Helpful Conversation Do’s for Holiday Gatherings
23 Nov 2015

Helpful Conversation Do’s for Holiday Gatherings

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Uncategorized | 0

    The holiday season is upon us and with it comes parties and gatherings. Some look forward to spending time with friends and family, while others dread it. The conversations and dynamics at these gatherings can either make or … Continued

How to Create a Peaceful Holiday
19 Nov 2015

How to Create a Peaceful Holiday

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Handling Difficult People, Relationships, Setting Boundaries | 0

  Very soon many of us will be getting together with family and friends to celebrate the holidays. In the Hallmark Movie version, everything will be perfectly warm and cuddly, loving and predictably happy, but in real life there are … Continued

boundaries, family, relationships
Happy Fall!
13 Nov 2015

Happy Fall!

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Practicing Kindness, Relationships, Self Care | 0

Here in Southern California the change of the seasons is more subtle than in other places. And yet as fall finally, ever so slightly, shows itself, there is a certain feeling of letting go and breathing in as if we … Continued

Kindness, relationship, self care
3 Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself at the Beginning of Every Day
29 Oct 2015

3 Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself at the Beginning of Every Day

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Finding Purpose, Self Care | 0

You can get through a day or you can make a day count. No matter where you are or what you are doing, if you need direction for your day or for your life, ask yourself these powerful questions to … Continued

Relationship Book, Tending Fences, Tending Fences Book, Terry Barnett-Martin
Stand Up
22 Oct 2015

Stand Up

by truepurposecoach@cox.net | posted in: Finding Purpose, Healthy Connections, Practicing Kindness | 0

“No one with curly hair is allowed into our clubhouse,” said Kimmy as she pushed Judy on the shoulder so hard she fell down into the dirt. “What if I made my hair straight? Could I come in then?” pleaded … Continued

Building Healthy Relationships, Healthy Relationships, Relationship Book, Tending Fences, Terry Barnett-Martin

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